Learn The Difference Between Miss, Ms., and Mrs.

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By Eivan’s Wedding Team

Although we are all supposed to know what Miss, Ms., and Mrs. mean, just when we need to use it, the problem happens. Addressing women (and men) properly is a sign of politeness and a good attitude.

Not only it’s considered polite, but addressing women with the wrong title may be perceived as very rude for some. This is especially important if you are about to change your marital status anytime soon. Also, if you’re about to create your wedding invitation, you better use the title of respect right.

With men, this is way easier. Whether you’re speaking to an unmarried or married man, they are addressed equally – Mr.

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Whether the man is married, young, or old, he will be always addressed as mister or short Mr.

Yet when it comes to women, the situation gets complicated. The major factors that make a difference between Miss, Ms., and Mrs. is a woman’s marital status and age. To make things even more complicated, another factor is a personal preference. In most of the cases, women have the preferred title they like to be addressed with.

In this article, we explain everything you need to know about formal titles in the United States and the English language in general.

So, when should you use Ms., Mrs., and Miss?

Scroll down to find out!

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Miss title explained

The title Miss is in most cases used when addressing young girls and younger unmarried women. The rule of thumb is to always stick to the title Miss with women under the age of 18. This is why in primary and high school, all female students will be formally addressed as Miss.

On the other hand, this one may get tricky if you are speaking to an unmarried adult woman, since it may feel a bit immature. If you are for some reason not sure which one would be appropriate, it’s best to stick to the more common title – Ms.

Ms. is a more universal alternative and you won’t break your head thinking if you’ve made an uncomfortable situation. If you’re in a business setting, this certainly shouldn’t happen.

To sum it up, if you’re addressing young women that are 18 or younger, Miss is a safe bet. However, if there is any doubt if a woman is young or only seems young, it’s better to go for Ms.

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Ms. title explained

This one you might guess from the previous explanation. The more universal title – Ms. is used to address any women, regardless of their marital status.

There is an interesting story about how the title Ms. was born. Opposite to what you might assume, the title Ms. came into use a couple of decades ago.

The term was born for the first time in the 1950s as women didn’t want to have a marital status as the first priority. As the times were more conservative than nowadays, many assumptions and stereotypes would occur only from a title.

The real revolution came in the 1970s, together with the women’s movement for equal rights. From then the title Ms. became just as common, or even more common than Miss and Mrs.

  • The title Ms. would be a female equivalent of men’s title Mr.

Even if many people know about addressing using Mr., the problems may occur with the pronunciation. Title Ms. is pronounced as mizz. The ending should sound like saying quiz. This is important as if it was otherwise, you would probably say Miss, and that’s a completely different title.

The problems with pronunciations also happen in some geographical regions. People living in the Southern part of the United States often pronounce Mrs. as “miz” as they shorten the whole “miz-iz.” When this happens, it’s hard to tell the difference if it was Mrs. or Ms.

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Mrs. title explained

By far we assume that the difference between women’s titles of honor is way more clear.

The prefix Mrs. is used when addressing married women regardless of their age. Whether the woman takes the husband’s surname or decides to keep a maiden name, the title remains the same in most cases. However, there are also exceptions for this and we’ll talk about it later.

It is often that divorced women prefer to be addressed as Mrs. because of their age, yet this depends mostly on personal preference. Regardless of the theory, the <