A Guide to Choosing the Perfect Boutonniere for Your Wedding

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Wedding boutonnieres are an important accessory for any groom and his groomsmen. They add a touch of elegance to a tuxedo or suit jacket and symbolize the groom’s love for his bride. The boutonniere is traditionally worn on the left lapel of the jacket, and it can be made up of a single flower or a small floral arrangement. If you’re getting ready for your big day and you’re wondering how to choose the perfect boutonniere, this ultimate guide is for you.

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First, consider the color scheme and floral design of your wedding. The boutonniere should complement the wedding flowers, so it’s important to choose flowers and greenery that match the color palette and floral arrangements. Carnations, orchids, and succulents are popular choices for boutonnieres, but you can also opt for tulips or ranunculus for a pop of color. Baby’s Breath is a beautiful and affordable filler that adds a touch of elegance to any boutonniere.

Once you’ve chosen your flowers, think about your wedding style. A classic white rose boutonniere will be a great choice if you’re having a formal black-tie wedding. If you’re having a more rustic or bohemian wedding, a boutonniere made up of greenery and succulents would be a great fit. If you’re unsure about the style of boutonniere that would work best for your wedding, don’t hesitate to consult with your florist. They have plenty of experience creating beautiful floral arrangements that match different wedding themes and styles.

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Another important consideration is the size of the boutonniere. It shouldn’t be too big or too small but rather proportional to the wearer’s body. A boutonniere that’s too big can look overwhelming, while a small one may not be noticed. The florist should be able to guide you on the appropriate size of the boutonniere, but a general rule of thumb is that it should be no larger than the width of the lapel.

In addition to the groom, the boutonniere is worn by the groomsmen and other male family members, such as the bride’s father. The groom’s boutonniere should be slightly different from the others to distinguish him as the groom. It could be a small flower or different color than the groomsmen’s boutonnieres or have a unique detail like a small ribbon or a different style of pin.

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When pinning on the boutonniere, it should be attached to the left lapel with the stem facing downwards. It’s also a good idea to have a backup boutonniere in case it gets damaged or lost. The best man or one of the groomsmen should be designated to carry the backup boutonniere just in case. It is also important to consider how it will complement the other floral elements in your wedding, such as the corsages and wedding bouquets. You want your boutonniere to stand out in its own right but not clash with the overall theme and color palette of your wedding. Your florist can work with you to create a cohesive look with flower arrangements and boutonniere ideas that tie everything together.

The wedding party, including the groomsmen and ring bearers, should all have matching boutonnieres that are consistent with the groom’s boutonniere. The best man and father of the bride and groom can have a slightly different but complementary design. It’s also important to consider the bride’s bouquet and bridal bouquet when selecting boutonniere flowers. The boutonnieres can feature smaller versions of the same flowers and greenery as the bouquets to create a cohesive look.

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In conclusion, choosing the perfect boutonniere for your wedding day is an important decision that should be made with care. Consider the color scheme and floral design of your wedding ceremony, the style of the wedding, the size of the boutonniere, and any special details or personal touches you’d like to add. With the help of your florist and some careful consideration, you can create beautiful and memorable boutonnieres.